pregnancy is a weird thing,
people want to help or they don't, or they say they do but then they don't come through,
and i have been warned many times that this will only carry over into the early days of mommyhood.
if any of you know someone who is expecting,
or just had a baby,
and you want to help or are part of a group that wants to help their family.
i encourage you all to really just ask what they need.
some people might enjoy a scheduled two months of meals being brought to them,
while others might really be blessed by a small gift card to a grocery store to pick up things.
it's hard when a community wants to bless your family but yet wont really do what your family might benefit the most from.